Tuesday, 30 September 2008

Digging into the past

A picture from when Premi was just a few months old - probably late 1974.

The amazing thing for me is that I am now 7 years older than my father was when this picture was taken. And still feel like a little kid - though we have two bouncy ones of our own - and are praying about when God wants us to open up our home to one or two more...

One thing is for sure - my respect for what Mum and Dad did for us kids - and what Amma and Appa did for Sheba and her siblings - is sky high.

We always knew that parenting was an impossible task - and are finding that to be true - but thanks be to God for grace - and that too in very large doses!

He fathers-forth whose beauty is past change. - Gerard Manley Hopkins

Monday, 29 September 2008

The Orb's Ordeal


We sorely wish we were in Delhi for this one. If you are in the NCR region - make sure you do not miss the opening on Wednesday night!

Sunday, 28 September 2008

Mobile faces










The wonders of the mobile phone never seem to cease.

We talked to people all across our country today.

Ranging from just next door - to the far reaches of the country. From morning to a late night call for prayer from a friend who is sick at Vellore.

Note how different we look when we talk. Its a pity Sheba's beautiful smile is not broadcast across the airwaves. Tis a mercy that my grimace is not!

Saturday, 27 September 2008

The poor will always be among you

I am reading through a number of applications for a fellowship. Its heady stuff. Amazing folks who show so much promise. I find myself enriched by being able to glance into so many lives - and amazed at the diversity of Kingdom-builders in our wonderful land. The reading has covered quantum computing to the colonial use of road-building to subdue the north-eastern frontier... Do I detect a trace of jealously in me? Perhaps there is just the tinge of desire to plunge back into the world of books...

At the same time one thing that I missed was anyone who seriously dealt with poverty. There were a few who had volunteered with social groups - and one advertising student who was deeply touched by having taken in a beggar-girl on a train once - but none who saw their calling to bring about real change in our nation by addressing poverty as a subject.

Its a big subject, of course, but one that we actually don't like to mention. Sort of like the proverbial 'elephant in the room.' At the same time it keeps riling us to hear others point it out. Like this evening's piece on BBC website:

For all of India's impressive progress the number of Indians living in extreme poverty is roughly equal to the current population of the United States.

Unless India commits itself to greater social spending and intervention, there is growing recognition here that it cannot hope to reduce poverty and those living on the margins of its society will continue to be left behind.

Ah yes - we need to spend more. Then it will all disappear. It is easy to describe our poverty - all it takes is an open eye - and an ear to listen to the horrible stories of what people live through.

But to actually say anything that remotely makes sense about changing things? Well that's a different stories. Though we have seen more people move out of the extreme poverty line (basically the most bare subsistence measure) that the government uses to define who is really poor - we also see that most of what goes as 'assistance' never even reaches the 'beneficiaries' and when it does it is so diluted that you just want to despair.

I came back armed with my double degree from the US a dozen years ago. My basic idea had shifted from 'poor people are poor because they are stupid' (phrased more elegantly of course in the language of illiteracy etc.) to 'people are poor because they do not have access to resources' (hence get more stuff out there and things will change).

The last 6 years of working with the poor in Thane has shown that we have a lot of other reasons too. Perhaps the most disturbing and disheartening being a horrible blindness to change and a spiritual bondage that we see in so many lives.

We tell Asha and Enoch that India is a rich country with a lot of people who are poor. We want to love our neighbours. Really. The only way forward is to do so one family at a time. One set of ideas at a time. One community at a time. One group of Christ-followers living out their love for each other and those around them at a time. No simple solutions - but lots of simple people being used together in following their master. No solution without the cross - without picking up the rude symbol of shame and moving forward in humble service to our Lord and to each other.

I'm going to live forever

Risk perception is an interesting thing.

We all (esp. when we are on the younger side of the dial) think that we are going to live forever.

Really.

Who of us woke up this morning with the memento mori thought in our mind?

Every day at least 3 people die in accidental deaths related to the suburban railways in Mumbai. Every day. Either in crossing the lines or in falling off the trains (see above pic for the crush hour local from Virar).

Who among the daily three will have thought that this was going to be their last day?

At the same time, lotteries thrive on the flip side of this. We all believe that bad things happen to other people - and good things happen to us.

When we first came to Mumbai 6 years ago the Playwin Lottery (just look at the name itself!) had a series of before-after advertisements: Morning - cycle / Evening - motorcycle! , Morning Public Phone / Evening Mobile!, the classic one was this: Morning - "Ramu" / Evening "Mr. Ramu" (visual of the new 'Mr. Ramu' in a snazzy suit, while before he was wearing a shabby shirt).

Forever young, I wanna be forever young (said a slightly disreputable and massively marketed musical poet). The risk perception of most of us bears this out. 'I am going to survive' is what we seem wired to say (which is also why HIV continues to linger even in 'advanced societies') and to hell with the bearers of bad news. Why be a spoil-sport?

God loves kids - through us

Sheba just attended an excellent consultation on fostering organised by OASIS India. The gentleman who came (Michael Pease of SFAC) talked about the crucial need for families to open up their homes to children who are unable to live in homes. How many times have we read the scriptures about God's care for the fatherless and the orphan - and assumed that this is for others.

Fact: we are God's answer to the world.

Fact: God wants the abandoned, unloved children around us to be in families.

Fact: if we do not foster - who will?

When it comes to taking someone in - we always think of the 'inconvenience'. So much like everyone else.

The OASIS folks said something. Mumbai has at least 1000 churches. What if each church takes in one widow-headed family - and at least one family in each church takes in a child.

Lets get on our knees. We are as a couple - and really ask God to show us when - not even whether. The Lord places the lonely into families (Ps. 68.6) but does not say that these will be 'ideal children' (see pic above for one way of understanding the ideal child). We know this - God loves children - and his heart aches for the unloved - and abandonned.

We must obey - no matter how tough it may be.

Bits of art

One of the amazing things about art is the whole bit of the sale. An artist creates it. Then someone buys it. Then the image is placed somewhere. Either displayed or stored. I have always wondered what an artist feels about that. Is there a sense of loss when the piece is packed up and taken away?

Here is a short write-up of a visitor's take on the Reflection Art gallery that Stefan and the merry folk of Artnet and others in Delhi are doing. Click here to read the report, and here to see what this gentleman's son has to say.