Hi Friends,
We have started from Mussoorie. Mum is sleeping peacefully in the taxi. We are in a small traffic jam, but have budgeted plenty of time to get to Delhi airport for our 5 am flight.
Thanks for your prayers as we go forward on angels wings!
Will keep you posted!
Blessings,
Andi and Sheba Eicher
10 minutes later....
p.s. we are out if the traffic jam... smooth sailing now thanks to our cool headed driver Shiv!
Friends,
Night has fallen, and the lights of Dehra Dun can be seen glistening like diamonds on black velvet from the windows of Shanti Kunj. Mum has had her supper and taken her medicines and has drifted to sleep in her room. We are just about to make a big shift in Mum’s life, as this will be the last night that she sleeps in her beloved Shanti Kunj home for some time. By this time tomorrow evening we will be driving to Delhi and then catching a 5 AM flight to Vishakapatnam (God willing of course).
Things can change very, very quickly. We know that, but have seen another instance today. For the past 3 days, the wonderful Dr. Raja has been paying Mum morning visits. Raja is a psychiatrist with a very, very big heart. His cheerful yet deep way has helped Mum so much. This morning we got a whatsapp message from him saying that his father had suddenly been admitted to an ICU and that Raja was already travelling on his way South to be with him.
Sheba and I know what it is like to rush across the country, with our parent in an ICU and facing an uncertain future. Please pray for Raja as he is with his father in Tamil Nadu, and for his wife Jessica and their children here in Mussoorie.
It’s a new world for all of us. One chapter of our lives are closing, and a new one is opening up. We so appreciate your thoughts and prayers for us as we make this journey and learn to adjust to a new life. Do lift up our dear foster brother Vickey who has so faithfully been caring for Mum for these 5 years since Dad’s passing away, as he too steps into a new chapter of his life. We are hoping that Mum will be able to return to Mussoorie in June, but have to take one day at a time. Pray for Sheba and myself as we learn to care for Mum in Odisha. We are all being stretched – and that is a good thing. But we need much wisdom, buckets of patience, dollops of good humour, and an overflow of the love divine.
In the meantime, here is a picture we took of Mum today. When we think that just 10 days ago she was on the very brink of death, we are just so thankful.
Each day is a gift. Let us love not in words and in speech, but in actions and in truth (1 John 3.18). So much to learn. Onwards!
- Andi and Sheba (for Eichers everywhere)
Dear Ones,
A quick despatch to say thank you for your prayers: Mum slept well last night for which we are so grateful. Overall it was a quiet day for us. We are slowly getting things organised for the trip to Odisha.
The small trickle of precious people who come to visit Mum continues – and we started the day with a home visit by her dear psychiatrist Dr. Raja who brought in his huge smile and his warm wisdom.
Yesterday Mum heard that a young man that she had been praying for had died. She was earnestly praying with the young man’s mother (the family are dear friends of ours) for healing from the cancer, and did not know that his condition had worsened. We can see how much Mum is grieving for him – and for his dear parents and siblings. Needless to say, Mum was tired most of the day and napped a number of times. We continue to see some small progress with her physio-therapy/rehab, but it is hard for Mum as she still cannot walk, and cannot yet sit up on her own or get out of bed (which she yearns to do). And so to sleep for another night.
Tomorrow is a new day!
Blessings from Andi and Sheba (on behalf of the scattered Eicher clan)
Thanks for your prayers – Mum’s sleep last night was the best she has had for a while. Really appreciate your intercession. Her right arm has not ‘instantly improved’ but we know that your intercessions are being heard by our loving Father!
Mum is super organised – everything in Shanti Kunj has its special place (did I tell you that it was ‘spick and span’ too?). Mum often told us that she would begin packing weeks before a journey so that she did not leave anything behind (yes – she will make at least one list).
But now the packing task is for us to do. We are planning to have Mum with us for a few months at Asha Kiran Hospital in Lamtaput, so we want to help her pack for this journey. But this time she will have to tell us where things are and what she wants to take. Any change is a challenge, and we know that even this process may be hard for her to take. Will you please pray for her as we start this task tomorrow – that the Lord will give her courage and trust in Him as she faces this upcoming change!
We are all walking along new paths. I just filled in the airline request for a wheel-chair to help Mum at the Delhi and Vishakapatnam airports. The website asked me to state why she needed wheel-chair assistance, and I wrote that Mum had a stroke. This is the first time I have done that.
We have reviewed Mum’s case with a neurologist in Delhi and from Mum’s condition she has diagnosed Mum as having suffered a stroke in her brain stem. The stroke affected the left pons (a part of the brain stem) and it is likely that the vertibro basilar artery which supplies blood to the pons was affected by an embolism (perhaps from her heart?). The effect of this stroke on Mum has been a quadri-paraletic effect with her losing function in all 4 limbs. She also has a left LMN facial palsy. We understand that for many people such a stroke would be fatal. We are so glad Mum has survived. And the good news is that neurologist is optimistic that Mum will be able to regain her strength and become functional again.
As we go to Lamtaput, Odisha with Mum (God-willing leaving on Thursday evening) we face a big gap: our beloved Asha Kiran Hospital does not currently have a physiotherapist or occupational therapist. What a great need we have for one (or two!). Sheba has helped develop our “Caring Communities” team who have identified 28 children with disabilities (most of them with cerebral palsy). What a blessing it would be to have a compassionate physio-therapist who could help the families in villages look after these children. What a blessing to be able to better help the elderly people who have suffered strokes. We can see in Mum’s life how much of a blessing the our dear Pritam has been. How much we wish other elderly in the villages will be blessed in the same way (and of course we would like Mum to be blessed too!).
So here is the request: could you please pray that Asha Kiran Hospital will be blessed with a physiotherapist… and that she or he would join soon! And if you know someone who would be willing to come and explore serving with us, could you please reach out to them and put them in touch with us?
Next week we are excited that a wonderful team from the Anugrah project from Herbertpur (including a physio-therapist and an occupational therapist) are spending 4 days with us at Asha Kiran – and will be helping us with the children with disabilities we serve. Please pray for the Father to send forth labourers into His harvest field. For Mum’s sake of course – but also for the many precious people who are not getting care which can reshape their lives in so many positive ways.
And so we sign off from cold Mussoorie with the lights of Dehra Dun glittering like an array of diamonds in the dark velvet of the night. The Lord continues to be so good to us – holding us tightly as we go forward. Thanks for your heart-felt prayers and encouragement!
Blessings from Andi and Sheba (on behalf of the Eicher ‘Pariwar’)
Dear Ones,
A short dispatch to tell you that we are experiencing God’s grace and love. Mum still has challenges to sleep through the night, so we solicit your prayers for rest (and for us too!). The physiotherapy is moving forward, sloooowly. Mum can now sit propped in a chair for some period of time – without head support for about 30 mins. She has begun short periods of balance while sitting without support. But her back needs much strengthening. She sort of dreads the Bipin our Physiotherapist – but works very hard to try and do the exercises he gives her. And then she asks ‘it is time for him to go?’ Bipin is very glad for her eagerness to do the exercises. But we can see the strain for her.
Currently a core prayer issue is her right arm. Mum has virtually no movement at the shoulder, wrist and finger level. A little movement at the elbow joint. Please pray that her brain with ‘recognise’ her right arm again and help her start getting strength in it again and begin to move it – rather than have it hanging limply like now.
Overall, it’s been a quiet day for which we are grateful. “All good things around us are sent from heaven above, so thank the Lord, oh thank the Lord, for all His love!”
Blessings from Andi and Sheba (on behalf of the extended family)
Dear Friends,
You many have noticed a small but significant change in the title of this daily prayer guide for our mother – Christa Eicher. We have replaced the word ‘health’ with ‘recovery.’ Each day is a miracle, for each of us. Who knows if you or I will wake up tomorrow? But we have very thankfully moved away from the terrible days just over a week ago when we just did not know whether Mum would pull through. We are now in another season of grace where we are hoping Mum will regain the use of her limbs and be able to stand and sit on her own again… and of course walk!
Today was a brilliantly clear crisp winter day in Mussoorie. The sun streamed in the windows and the azure hills melted into the deep blue sky. Mum did not sleep much last night – but was in good spirits all through today. We thank the Lord for His deep love for us, and for these days of grace.
Having completed a day here we are so glad that Mum can be ‘in her home.’ It is truly beautiful and crammed in every corner with some plant, some photo or picture of years gone by, some antique or book just calling out to be read.
But one thing is crystal clear. Mum cannot just ‘get back to normal.’ She is lying in her bed, in her room, but cannot turn over in her own strength. She needs care 24x7 for the foreseeable future. She told us last night ‘I want to go up to the prayer room’ – but without someone carrying her up the stairs, that is not possible for her. Our dear neighbour Sandy came over today to help Sheba give Mum a bath. A major undertaking.
Having said this, it also doesn’t mean that Mum ‘will always be this way.’ We are so glad for the daily physiotherapy sessions that Mum is getting. She sort of dreads Pritam’s arrival, because of the exertion that she knows is in store when her physiotherapist arrives. But that exertion is the result of her earnest hard work. She tries so hard and with such eagerness. We just wished that we could push a button and suddenly Mum would be doing her normal 1 hour walks each day up and down the steep Mussoorie hillsides. Instead, she is in bed, working hard to raise and lower her legs, straining to open and shut her right hand… Today at one point she jokingly tried to bring her hands together in a “namaste” – to end the rigours of the session by saying goodbye to Pritam! There is much hope, but the road ahead is a strenuous one for her. Thanks for your prayers – and will you especially pray for her right arm and hand. She is really struggling as she is unable to use the arm at all at this point, let alone the hand…
In late afternoon Sheba and I were able to go out for a walk. We found ourselves walking along the spectacular ‘eye-brow’ path – and spent some time praying for the next steps: Mum’s recovery, our plan to have her with us in Odisha for a few months, our work at Asha Kiran, our children and extended family, our house construction, our fellowship… We are weak, but He is strong, and wants us to follow Him. What a wonderful Saviour we serve. How much He loves us.
Please pray for Mum’s on-going healing and restoration. We are currently planning to get an early-morning flight from Delhi to Vishakapatnam on the 11th of March. There is much to do between now and then, but we are grateful for the path that is opening up for us. At present we hope that care for her for a few months and then come back to Mussoorie with her in summer.
As we said, each day is a miracle. We end off the week very, very grateful. Tomorrow is the Lord’s day. All glory to Him as we celebrate His resurrection – and His amazing victory over sin and bondage by the Man of Sorrows, who is well acquainted with grief – and by whose wounds we are healed.
- Andi and Sheba Eicher (for our big family everywhere)
Dear Ones,
These notes of the day are written… at night. And after a fairly good sleep on Wednesday night, yesterday’s version was one where Mum was restless the whole night through.
The Bible tells us that “He gives His beloved sleep” and we know how precious rest is. Will you please join us in praying for Mum that tonight’s sleep will not be like yesterdays – drifting off into small naps – but waking up again agitated. What thoughts and half-ideas are pressing in on her now? We know that she is frustrated to not be able to move around at will. Is she fitfully drifting in and out because she doesn’t think she will be able to walk again?
Amazingly enough, we have come to the end of our stay at Landour Community Hospital. Yesterday Mum did not use oxygen during the day or the night. Her last dose of antibiotics went in intravenously in the morning and in the afternoon the drip was stopped. We have been ‘sitting’ her up in her bed for her food. She sips from a straw to drink and we are encouraging her to use her left hand to guide morsels to her mouth.
What a blessing to have been ministered to by our ‘green angels’ – the hard-working LCH nurses and nurse-aides whose normal white uniforms are swathed with COVID-19 protocol green smocks and of course the ubiquitous masks. We are grateful to Drs. Alem, George, Raja, Alam and Shibin for their wise counsel and curative arts. And to the support staff as well. Sheba and I camped out in the hospital room where Mum was for the past 9 days – and we were so well looked. Meals brought up with a smile, cleaning staff sweeping in and out twice a day, coffee available from the on-duty watchman even at odd hours of the night. And the many, many prayers we received from staff and the stream of visitors who came to be with Mum. Food from Neeru and Stefan for Mum. Our brother Manoj showing up yesterday unannounced from Nepal. We are so very grateful.
And so this morning we started packing. Mum was going to be discharged and shifted back to Shanti Kunj.
Then the big event: 12 days after she had her fall, we brought her back to Shanti Kunj at noon today. Sheba cradled Mum in her lap on the drive up to hill. It was then surreal to be carrying Mum down the path from Sisters Bazar on the same stretcher she was taken up on a dozen days earlier. Thankfully there was no crowd this time, just 4 carriers and Sheba and our dear Paul Hamilton who drove us up from LCH in his jeep. We had heated up Mum’s room before-hand and so we navigated the stretcher through the beauty of plants and antiques of Shanti Kunj. Before we knew it, we were able to lay Mum back down in her own bed.
Mum had her lunch – we were able to ‘sit’ her in a chair (with support) and feed her rice and vegetable curry. It was good that Pritam, Mum’s physiotherapist, arrived promptly at 2.15 PM. He did a short session with Mum – who was quite tired – esp. after her restless night. Mum then took a nap and we unpacked and tried to get ourselves grounded for the next few days.
Our current plan is to spend a few days helping Mum orient herself and begin the hard work of rehabilitation using physio-therapy exercises. We are hoping that she will join Sheba and myself on a trip to our home at Asha Kiran Hospital in Odisha on Thursday next week.
There are no easy steps for Mum as she begins this new phase of her recovery. She has clearly had a stroke. Besides the initial fall that we assume was stroke-related, Mum has lost power and control of all 4 limbs – but thankfully it looks very possible for her to regain her strength over time and with therapy and grit (and prayers of course). But due to the fall she lost a lot of blood and also spiralled into a serious acute illness storm, where her kidneys were not functioning well, she had a pneumonia, was drifting in and out of consciousness, while also having an enlarged heart which points to a long-term heart failing. And did we mention that her psychiatric meds also needed a revamp?
Tonight, in the quiet of Shanti Kunj, we are thankfully out of Mum’s initial crisis. She has come out of the valley of the shadow of death. We now request your prayers for Mum as she moves to the next level of care. That the Lord will give us His patience and wisdom about how best to help Mum heal and flourish.
Sheba and I told Mum this afternoon that she had suffered a stroke. She was shocked. She has a long way to understand the implications. A few minutes after arriving she asked if she could go up to the ‘prayer room.’ Sheba and I looked at each other. We gently had to tell Mum that the only way up there now was for us to carry her there. Oh, she said.
Mum needs so much help for her to recover all levels including:
1) healing from trauma and fear linked with her fall and subsequent events,
2) understanding her current situation as a person who is at least temporarily paralysed, and not giving into despair,
3) growing in strength and muscle coordination to enable her to do her activities of daily living,
4) learning to adjust to upcoming changes to a fairly independent past 5 years of her life,
5) understanding what our loving Jesus is telling her about how she can minister to Him in this phase of her life.
I just peeked into Mum’s room – and it looks like she is sleeping. We so much hope she will sleep through the night. It’s a whole new world for all of us– and urgently ask prayer for the entire extended family. Pray to be given wisdom, good humour, patience, insight, hope, and discernment of what God wants us to do – and how we should do it!
- Andi and Sheba Eicher (on behalf of the Eichers world-wide)
